Sunday, June 28, 2015
A few Things You Should Know About Sexual Techniques
The importance of reproduction as an essential ingredient of sex makes every individual posses a certain level of sexual technique from the moment they are born. In order to create chess pieces you need to know the techniques of woodworking, plaster, iron and so on and when it comes to sex such knowledge is not required because as the old saying goes – All roads lead to Rome. However, it is much easier to arrive at the desired destination if both partners have good command of social and sexual skills.
Communication is the key
Mastering the ease of use of wide scale of soft and “dirty” words, the possibility to talk without actually saying words but only sighs and moans, eye contact with the ability to spread pupils, the knowledge of erogenous maps of the partners body and adjusting to suitable coital positions according to your own or your partner’s height and “width”, is possible only if you invest a concept that is known as sexual technique. If you are able to master sexual technique and satisfy your partner, you probably don't need sex pill for better sex.
Sexology literature is full of books that represent some sort of sexual guides. In the books of this type, you can find descriptions of techniques which, in case they are properly used by the practitioner, can lead to sexual craze in your sexual partner. By reading these books, sexually ignorant persons believe that it is enough to press a certain sexual button on the body of another person in the bed in order to have unforgettable sex. Nothing could be further from the truth.
By prolonging foreplay to infinity, the person who doesn’t like long foreplay, will feel aversion instead of joy and excitement. A gentle touch on the body of a person that is excited by strong grip will result in feeling of tickling and irresistible laughter instead of excitement. Oral sex for some persons is an expression of extreme intimacy, for others – this is a clear sign of perversion. The mechanical use of sexual techniques without showing feelings and knowing what the other person actually wants from the sexual play, makes sex estranged, and leads to lack of interest and avoiding sexual intercourses. So, the key is communication.
Proper and varied selection of sex positions takes a central place in mastering sexual technique which in turn should ensure that, over time, sex won’t become monotonous. People can find descriptions of over 200 different sex position in the ancient and modern literature.
What is interesting is the fact that some of them are simply impossible for performing and some of these sex positions require special acrobatic abilities that most people do not possess. Mystification in fact doesn’t exist. Essentially, each coital position is reduce to two basic variants.
Partners can perform them in lying, standing or sitting position and on the other hand, the couple during the practice of certain position achieves or doesn’t achieve eye contact. Some couples use only one sex position during their entire life. Others love to make experiments. The most common sex position in the western world is the so-called – missionary position in which the man is over the woman. Find the best position that can help you to perform the whole love making process longer so that you can stop premature ejaculation.