The importance of reproduction as an essential ingredient of
sex makes every individual posses a certain level of sexual techniques from the
moment they are born. In order to create chess pieces you need to know the
techniques of woodworking, plaster, iron and so on and when it comes to sex
such knowledge is not required because as the old saying goes – All roads lead
to Rome. However, it is much easier to arrive at the desired destination if
both partners have good command of social and sexual skills.
Communication is the key
Mastering the ease of use of wide scale of soft and “dirty”
words, the possibility to talk without actually saying words but only sighs and
moans, eye contact with the ability to spread pupils, the knowledge of
erogenous maps of the partners body and adjusting to suitable coital positions
according to your own or your partner’s height and “width”, is possible only if
you invest a concept that is known as sexual technique. If you are able to master sexual techniques and satisfy your partner, you probably don't need sex pill for better sex.
Sexology literature is full of books that represent some
sort of sexual guides. In the books of this type, you can find descriptions of
techniques which, in case they are properly used by the practitioner, can lead
to sexual craze in your sexual partner. By reading these books, sexually
ignorant persons believe that it is enough to press a certain sexual button on
the body of another person in the bed in order to have unforgettable sex.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
By prolonging foreplay to infinity, the person who doesn’t
like long foreplay, will feel aversion instead of joy and excitement. A gentle
touch on the body of a person that is excited by strong grip will result in
feeling of tickling and irresistible laughter instead of excitement. Oral sex
for some persons is an expression of extreme intimacy, for others – this is a
clear sign of perversion. The mechanical use of sexual techniques without
showing feelings and knowing what the other person actually wants from the
sexual play, makes sex estranged, and leads to lack of interest and avoiding
sexual intercourses. So, the key is communication.
Sex positions
Proper and varied selection of sex positions takes a central
place in mastering sexual technique which in turn should ensure that, over
time, sex won’t become monotonous. People can find descriptions of over 200
different sex position in the ancient and modern literature.
What is interesting is the fact that some of them are simply
impossible for performing and some of these sex positions require special
acrobatic abilities that most people do not possess. Mystification in fact
doesn’t exist. Essentially, each coital position is reduce to two basic
variants.
Partners can perform them in lying, standing or sitting
position and on the other hand, the couple during the practice of certain
position achieves or doesn’t achieve eye contact. Some couples use only one sex
position during their entire life. Others love to make experiments. The most
common sex position in the western world is the so-called – missionary position
in which the man is over the woman. Find the best position that can help you to perform the whole love making process longer so that you can stop premature ejaculation.