Five Exciting Reasons To Should Have Sex

Sex shouldn’t be just a weekend thing; it should be any time thing right? Couples, especially those who work feel having a satisfying sex during the week is impossible because of how stressed out they are, but little do they know that’s the main reason they should be having sex. There is always a reason to have sex every day of the week and it has a profound effect such as sleep improvement, painkiller, relieves stress, makes you happier and also, it actually increases level of testosterone in men. Don’t let anything stop you from getting these benefits because you feel you are too busy to have a good time with your partner. Let’s check out some of the reasons why you should be having sex this week:

Think about distressing with sex on a Monday night

Monday is the most dreaded work day as there are lots to do in the office being the first working day. The deadlines, the new project, dealing with team members can leave you angry and frustrated. But you don’t have to feel this way if you remember there is something exciting waiting for you at home. Plan your Monday sex night to give you the desire/sexual desire to look forward to after a stressful day.

Make it all about a quickie on Tuesday

If you are going to be constant with this everyday sex thing, then you might as well make it interesting. Rather than having a long sex on Tuesday, a quickie would suffice. You can have a quick taste of each other immediately after returning from work and not till you go to bed. That adrenaline rush of quick sex would make dinner look more delicious.

Morning sex would do the trick of a mid- week

You might need to go out later that night since its midweek, why not have sex in the morning. Yesterday’s night was a quickie; you could consolidate the act with a steamy morning sex. The sexual pleasure will keep your mood on point on through the day. You could set the alarm for 30 minutes earlier than your rising time, to have an intimate time.

Make Thursday a come home early for good loving

It’s normal to get cut up in work on Thursday, especially when you know the next day is Friday and you need to meet up with deadlines before the close of the week. But you could set a milestone to finish everything you have to do in the office in order to come home early for some romantic get together with your partner.it shows that you both still have each other on top of your priority list. It’s says something like “If the world ends today, I won’t be scared as long as I’m with you.”

Friday sex should come naturally as celebration sex

It's TGIF! Yes, that excitement that the work week is finally over and you can have others things to do including having a long sex. A bottle of wine and finger food to set the mood here will do. You have all the time in the world to please your sex partner.

Why we all need a vibrator

Vibrators are surprisingly not a new invention. If history trackers are right, it has been around for as long as the 17th century. But yet we wonder why it is not wholeheartedly accepted by everyone. What are vibrators? Vibrators are special small machines which help the users get aroused and derive sexual pleasure from its use.

Someone once told a story of a time he was at a camp and he saw this lady sitting by a dark corner, moaning. He came close only to discover she was having fun with her vibrator. Now while other ladies were going on a sex rampage with other guys in camp, forgetting they had sex partners at home, this smart lady was keeping herself warm with a vibrator and being 100 percent faithful! That is just one benefit of a vibrator. Let’s have a look at others:

For Mid-Life Women

Vaginal tightness, atrophy, dryness are some of the uncomfortable issues women in their mid-life age face. This could make them irritated and depressed as they feel different and no longer have that sex appeal they had years back. These issues more often than not lead to painful sex which makes most women uninterested in initiating sex with their partner and this could drive their partners into the hands of another woman. This sounds terrible right? Why don’t you prevent this by getting yourself a shiny vibrator and feel younger again?

A vibrator eliminates vagina dryness by promoting vaginal lubrication. It eliminates vaginal atrophy by improving sexual sensation. It also eliminates vaginal tightness by improving the elasticity of vaginal walls. For example, a woman who has vulvodynia can benefit from using a vibrator. It takes her mind off the pain she is experiencing or the disappointment on her partner’s face when her pain won’t just let them have fun. With a vibrator in her hand, sliding it all around her vagina, being in control of every movement, she is more relaxed and able to enjoy every moment spent with her exploring equipment.

For Variety Sake

It really doesn’t have to be the same penetration all the time. Couples could try something different for a change to spice up their sex life. Imagine your man with a vibrator in his hand, vibrating different spots of your vagina and inner thighs while you lay back watching him and reacting to every touch. Fun right? A woman is sure to reach her climax when a vibrator is used to stimulating her clitoris before even trying penetrative sex.

Openness in Relationship

Using a vibrator with your partner gives room for better communication and openness in your sexual relationship. You are not afraid or shy to tell your partner where he should go and where to stay away from. Both of you are up there on the bed, feeling each other with the vibrator and talking about the spots in your body that make you cave in.

Self -exploration

With a vibrator, you are able to tell what part of your vagina is most sensitive. When you are all by yourself with your vibrator, you take your time to massage each spot in your body to know where your partner should focus on next time he is in bed with you. Call it self-discovery and you are not far from the truth.

Six Exotic Oral Sex Positions

Oral sex is something couples do to get ready for the penetrative sex, or if they are not in the mood for rigorous sex. It is enjoyed well when couples know how when to lick, suck or use the hand as a complimenting tool. There are other requirements that make oral sex more appealing, unique and pleasurable which is how couples position themselves to perform it. While a laid back woman with wide spread legs waiting for her man to go head down on her, a woman sitting on the crown of a chair with her legs apart could make all the difference in oral sex. Check out some cool positions for oral sex that you can try out next time you want to do more of licking and sucking.

The David Copperfield Position

This involves the woman lying down on the bed with her hips propped up by the pillow under her butt. The vagina is on full display with this position and her partner can see all the corners like the vulva and clitoris and even the labia to suck. Your partner doesn’t need to bend so low and put a strain on his back in the process.

Heir to the Throne

This is a sassy position for the ladies, sitting down on a chair with your legs supported by the arms of the chair. If it’s a chair without arms, then your man can hold your laps while you grasp the chair for support. Then he gets down on his knee to feel your essence. Your vagina here is opened up like a flower waiting to be plucked by his mouth.

The Face sitter

In this position, the woman lies down on the bed close to the wall with the pillow supporting her head while the man comes close to her face on his knees placing his hand on the wall for support. The woman pulls him closer by holding his waist with one hand while the other strokes the penis to get a rock hard erections before giving it a good head. This allows for a close contact where the couple can look into each other’s eyes for a heightened sensation.

The Elevator

Here, the man stands with his back against the wall while the woman kneels down, one hand around the man and the other on his penis to suck it. The man can hold her head to pull her it closer when he wants his penis to go deep into her mouth.

Sixty nine

This is a classic sex position, a definition of team work as couples suck at the same time. The man lies down on the bed while the lady climbs on him with her legs astride, bringing her vagina close to his mouth while her mouth finds his penis as they suck each other to ecstasy.

One up

Here the lady lies close to the edge of the bed with one of her legs up. She supports the leg with her hands while the man goes down on his knees stimulate her clitoris and gives the vagina a sexual pleasure it deserves.

Great Sex Positions for A Happy Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s day might be a good few days away, but that doesn’t mean that you should think about it and prepare. Exchanging flowers, gifts and dining out are all but the norm, why not try out something different this time round?

How about spicing up your sex life? Below we take you through some easy but stimulating sex positions that you and your partner will love! Good sex positions can help you lasting longer in bed.

The Stuffer

Let’s focus on the one most loved and hated sex style, the missionary. Let’s funk this style up and make you fall in love with it. Allow your lady partner to lay down on the edge of the bed and have her legs straight up.

Now, the man should push the legs slightly on the side and start penetration from a standing position. Make sure the lady keeps the legs together to ensure that her vagina remains tight. The perfect place for the lacking extra sexual pleasure!

The Whip the Reindeer Position

Spice things up by throwing your lady on the back of the sofa or a penis level table. She should have her back up, her butt on the edge of the table/couch and her legs are dangling. Now grab tightly on her hips, let her bring her legs to your waist and pump her as if your dear life depended on it.

She will scream her way through to multiple orgasms, and you will be able to hold back your orgasm, and if you wish, you can synchronize your orgasms!

The Lead

A position that requires the lady to take the lead. Throw your man into a seat, lift up your dress and take out your panty. Now mount your man and slowly guide him inside you, your feet should be on the floor and lean in towards him.

When you are firmly in position, and he is deep inside, start giving him lap dances and gyrate in a manner that stimulates the both of you. Let him use his finger or toy to stimulate your clitoris or anus, receive extra pleasure! This will give you multiple intense orgasm.

The Toy Game

A tricky yet very fulfilling move. As the gent use a double on your woman. Get a vibrato that stimulates her vagina and clitoris at the same time, and then insert a but plug in her anus and use your free hand to fondle her breasts.

As for the lady, give your man a deep blowjob as you rub his balls, he is into it insert a but plug in his anus, the double portion pleasure brings a whole new meaning to position 69!

The Night Closer

As you wind up your Valentine’s Day evening, start undressing right from the front door. By the time you reach your bedroom you should be but naked. Tie her to the bed in doggy style and use a lot of lube for satisfying anal.

But first talk about it and make sure that she is willing to go ahead with the anal challenge! You are having rock hard erection by just thinking of anal sex, right? It will be excited 

How to reach a simultaneous orgasm?

Simultaneous orgasm is rare for many couples. When it happens, it usually happens spontaneously, but it is good to know that if the partners put some effort they can reach an orgasm like that intentionally. Without any doubts it is good to experience such orgasm, because the excitement in both partners rises and ends at the same time but do not focus or force on this type of orgasm. Never force your orgasm on simultaneous orgasm because that can eliminate the sexual pleasure or it can create tense ambience and neither you nor your partner will each orgasm at all. In many cases like that women fake orgasm only to end the agony. You should rather let the course of events and try to soak up every moment of your sexual act without worrying how it will end. In addition, relaxation is usually the key to experiencing simultaneous orgasm.

Simultaneous orgasm can happen when sex partners are familiar with each other’s needs and physical predispositions and know how their partner will react to certain stimulation, arousal, position and penetration. It is a well known fact that women need more time to experience intense orgasm. When the man Is very excited this difference is even greater. You also need to know your own body very well and to know which position gives you maximum pleasure and which position is the best to reach orgasm. When you sync with your partner, you will know how to increase or reduce the level of excitement until you reach the orgasmic peak together.

Most men can reach orgasm in a relatively short period of time. When they want to wait for their partner, they try to do everything they can in order to prevent premature ejaculation. If you are a man and you have trouble with postponing your ejaculation you should know that there is an ancient technique called Jen Mo that can help you. This is actually a certain spot on your body located between the anus and the testicles. With gentle pressure on this spot you can stop the ejaculation. When you feel that you are close to an ejaculation simply use two or three fingers to press this spot. You will instantly feel relaxed and you will avoid ejaculation. The good news is that the strong erection will remain on the same level. You can also ask your partner to press this spot too.  

You can also use another method to stop premature ejaculation but this method will require assistance from your partner. When you are near reaching orgasm ask your partner to use her index finger under the glans penis and the thumb on top of the same spot. With a firm grip that lasts for around 20 seconds you will avoid ejaculation. When the euphoric feeling is gone, she should remove her fingers from the penis and you can continue having sex. This method will make your partner feel that she is in control which will surely make her more aroused. 

Getting Rid Of ED and Maintaining Hard Erection

The art of making love is when as a man you are in a position of giving your woman great sexual pleasure seeing to it that she has an orgasm at-least twice every session. Now that we have that out of the way, it is also important for you as a man that you achieve sexual climax as well to crown the session.

Unfortunately, over 60% of men suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED). This means that they are unable to satisfy their partners since they ejaculate before or after entering the vagina.

To help you get rid of the soft erection and premature ejaculation, we have lined up two mind blowing tricks that will help you get rid of premature ejaculation and maintain hard erection…

Prolong the Staying Power

Well over 90% of men reach orgasm before their lady sexual partners achieve their orgasm. But this doesn’t have to be so as a man, you have the ability of holding back your own climax to a point where your lovely lady reaches her orgasm and also build up to a stronger, harder and pleasurable orgasm yourself. Here are the idea soft erection treatment processes…

·         You should refrain from paying too much attention to sensations that envelop your genitalia as you enjoy the love making session.

·         Instead lay focus on the way pleasure feels and how it is surging all through your body.

·         The instance you sense that you are about to reach an orgasm, stop pumping for a moment and start thrusting slowly

To make sure that you get back on point, switch to pleasuring your lady friend orally. This is an act all women love and one that will allow you to breath in, relax and lower your arousal to a point where you can start thrusting again. Repeat this process until when you believe that you want to have your orgasm.

Hold in Your orgasm

The point you reach ejaculation, you will start feeling involuntary contractions in the pelvis area. Before this point occurs, it is wise to start squeezing the PC muscles and do your best to hold in ejaculation so long as you can.

The PC muscle doubles up as the same muscle that disrupts the flow of urine. After having achieved an orgasm, hold it back intentionally. This act will help you enjoy extreme pleasure when you release it finally.

TIP: Mastering the two tips is the best soft erection treatment you will ever need.